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data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-64b1b28 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"64b1b28\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a15662c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a15662c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Someone once said, &#8220;Happiness is in My Pocket.&#8221;<\/p><p>My pocket, not yours, is a philosophy I developed with over 40 years of experience in sales.\u00a0 The philosophy is nothing new but offers the best road to success.\u00a0 I consider myself a spiritual person, and I follow the Lord as closely as possible, but in the world of sales, you are in a very competitive game, and I so hate to lose.\u00a0 \u00a0But at the same time, you must do things the right way.<\/p><p>Winning and losing in the sales business has much to do with your current and future earning potential. It can also determine the direction of future career opportunities.\u00a0 I have worked with some great salespeople, now CEOs of influential organizations. You see, no matter the organization or your business, sales is the food that feeds the organization.\u00a0 Sales within your company drive jobs and revenue growth, affecting macro-events or micro-events within your corporation and in your day-to-day sales life.\u00a0 Change creates opportunity, but considering the theory of my pocket, you need to be on top of every situation to control the outcome of the opportunity.<\/p><p>When I lose, I always see my commissions, my hard-earned money, in someone else&#8217;s pocket.\u00a0 Thereby, I came up with the phrase, &#8220;My Pocket, Not Yours.&#8221;<\/p><p>It means I want to win the deal by utilizing my capabilities and years of experience.\u00a0 I intend to pursue this project correctly, but I intend to win and put the commissions in my pocket, not yours. In the movie Wall Street, Michael Douglas, who played the role of Gordon Gekko, said, &#8220;Greed is a Good Thing.&#8221; Greed is not bad as long as I follow my spiritual teachings to get there.\u00a0 I will just beat you to the mark the right way. Simply speaking, I am going to out sell you.<\/p><p>Many friends have heard me mention the term &#8220;Drysdale Disease.&#8221; It is a phrase or experience made famous on the television show Beverly Hillbillies.\u00a0 A banker cared for a wealthy family in Beverly Hills, the Clampetts.\u00a0 Mr. Drysdale was a lot of things, but most remembered was how people revived him if he ever fainted in their presence.\u00a0 Waking, Mr. Drysdale took a roll of $100 passed under his nose like smelling salts and never failed to bring him back to life as long as the wad of $100 bills was large enough.<\/p><p>In a nutshell, I have always seen this analogy as my motivation to succeed, no matter the obstacles or the situation.\u00a0 Every time I did not stand on the stage at the President&#8217;s Club, someone somewhere was in my pockets, and I was losing money as commissions pay bills.\u00a0 Closing deals early in the game was always in my best interest.\u00a0 As one of my bosses used to say, a mortgaged salesperson has great external motivation!!<\/p><p>I like to live in the moment, but I hate so much to lose.<\/p><p>Remember, in all situations, you can only deal with today because yesterday is already in the books, and I can only worry about tomorrow at 12:01 am.\u00a0 I need to be successful in this day.\u00a0 So, as I said in a previous article, a sales representative needs to wake up in the morning knowing their goals for the day and the route to success.<\/p><p>One of the keys to success is to play your sales strategy like a great chess player. You must think ahead and outthink your competition.\u00a0 You must think of every possible scenario and devise a possible answer to every situation.\u00a0 Now, let&#8217;s be honest: you cannot figure out every angle, but you can minimize the chance of errors or a wrong decision.\u00a0 You also learn how to tact like a good sailor.\u00a0 When they move, you counter with a better move.<\/p><p>So, the essential summary of this subject is not to lose.\u00a0 To not let anyone else collect my check. It adds reason to how you approach your competition.\u00a0 Within reason and the spiritual laws of my Lord, I pursue a deal to win, a pursuit to put my commissions into &#8220;my pocket,&#8221; at all costs, within reason.\u00a0 My goal is to always stay on the right side of things.\u00a0 I like to win, but I believe in treating people justly and right in the process.<\/p><p>Life is a challenge, and a sales career makes life more interesting in many positive ways but with opportunities for harmful activities.\u00a0 Avoiding distractions and procrastination is critical to winning.\u00a0 You will encounter several chances to win in doing your job, but as in any competitive business, you do not want to set a tone of losing.\u00a0 And besides, my ego says that failure is not an option.\u00a0 So, play to win by investing in every aspect of the process to close every opportunity.<\/p><p>In later posts, I will share with you my sales process, which is the same as any good consultative sales process, but the one I use is called PECC for Prospect, Engage, Consult, and Close. In this process, you get the client to assist in tweaking your sales solution to successfully handle the unique needs of your software\/device\/service.<\/p><p>If you answer a customer\u2019s questions and get the client to consult with you on how to win the project, as I instruct in my PECC Sales Program, you should put yourself in a great position to win every deal.\u00a0 You see, there have been many times when I have had a customer lock out the competition because I showed value in my offering, and my offering, at the same time, met a lot of their management objectives.\u00a0 These are the same management objectives that many executive-level managers are paid bonus money on yearly.<\/p><p>I have a habit developed in my sales life that I wake up with my deals on my mind.\u00a0 I am looking for ways to better provide for my family and take advantage of the opportunity to put my family in a better financial condition.\u00a0 Put us on the road to generational wealth.\u00a0 You can make serious money in sales, and I need to win as many deals as possible.\u00a0 I have a long way to go and a short time to get there.<\/p><p>So, start your day in the know and do everything to win, justly and fairly, but I like my commissions in My Pockets, Not Yours.<\/p><p>Chase your competitors like a bunch of wild dogs.\u00a0 Good Hunting!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b08ed8e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b08ed8e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" 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https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/7e9df28a-a7c3-47fc-8735-8299a3d3ab47-770x433.png 770w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/7e9df28a-a7c3-47fc-8735-8299a3d3ab47.png 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-position-top-right bdt-margin bdt-margin-right\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-content\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-content-inner bdt-transition-fade\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-flex-inline bdt-gallery-item-link-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-gallery-item-link bdt-gallery-lightbox-item bdt-link-icon\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"no\" data-caption=\"The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Empowering Minority Sales Representatives\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/7e9df28a-a7c3-47fc-8735-8299a3d3ab47.png\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"ep-icon-search\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-gallery-item-link bdt-link-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/homepage2\/the-role-of-emotional-intelligence-in-empowering-minority-sales-representatives\/\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"ep-icon-link\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-desc bdt-text-left bdt-position-z-index bdt-position-bottom\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-post-gallery-title-link\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/homepage2\/the-role-of-emotional-intelligence-in-empowering-minority-sales-representatives\/\" >\n\t\t\t<h4 class=\"bdt-gallery-item-title bdt-margin-remove\">\n\t\t\t\tThe Role of Emotional Intelligence in Empowering Minority Sales Representatives\t\t\t<\/h4>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-position-top-left\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-item bdt-transition-toggle bdt-width-1-1 bdt-width-1-2@s bdt-width-1-3@m\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-inner\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail\">\n\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" src=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/07bc93b9-2892-4f37-9fdb-b418510a900d-300x169.png\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"Understanding How Pauses in Conversation Can Uncover Customer Needs and Desires\" srcset=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/07bc93b9-2892-4f37-9fdb-b418510a900d-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/07bc93b9-2892-4f37-9fdb-b418510a900d-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/07bc93b9-2892-4f37-9fdb-b418510a900d-770x433.png 770w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/07bc93b9-2892-4f37-9fdb-b418510a900d.png 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-position-top-right bdt-margin bdt-margin-right\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-content\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-content-inner bdt-transition-fade\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-flex-inline bdt-gallery-item-link-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-gallery-item-link bdt-gallery-lightbox-item bdt-link-icon\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"no\" data-caption=\"Understanding How Pauses in Conversation Can Uncover Customer Needs and Desires\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/07bc93b9-2892-4f37-9fdb-b418510a900d.png\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"ep-icon-search\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-gallery-item-link bdt-link-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/homepage2\/understanding-how-pauses-in-conversation-can-uncover-customer-needs\/\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"ep-icon-link\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-desc bdt-text-left bdt-position-z-index bdt-position-bottom\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-post-gallery-title-link\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/homepage2\/understanding-how-pauses-in-conversation-can-uncover-customer-needs\/\" >\n\t\t\t<h4 class=\"bdt-gallery-item-title bdt-margin-remove\">\n\t\t\t\tUnderstanding How Pauses in Conversation Can Uncover Customer Needs and Desires\t\t\t<\/h4>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-position-top-left\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-item bdt-transition-toggle bdt-width-1-1 bdt-width-1-2@s bdt-width-1-3@m\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-inner\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail\">\n\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" src=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/33b51b58-b6d3-49fe-93dd-3b86702126cc-300x169.png\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"Exploring Resilience Strategies for Sales Professionals\" srcset=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/33b51b58-b6d3-49fe-93dd-3b86702126cc-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/33b51b58-b6d3-49fe-93dd-3b86702126cc-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/33b51b58-b6d3-49fe-93dd-3b86702126cc-770x433.png 770w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/33b51b58-b6d3-49fe-93dd-3b86702126cc.png 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-position-top-right bdt-margin bdt-margin-right\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-content\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-content-inner bdt-transition-fade\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-flex-inline bdt-gallery-item-link-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-gallery-item-link bdt-gallery-lightbox-item bdt-link-icon\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"no\" data-caption=\"Exploring Resilience Strategies for Sales Professionals\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/33b51b58-b6d3-49fe-93dd-3b86702126cc.png\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"ep-icon-search\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-gallery-item-link bdt-link-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/homepage2\/exploring-resilience-strategies-for-sales-professionals\/\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"ep-icon-link\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-desc bdt-text-left bdt-position-z-index bdt-position-bottom\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-post-gallery-title-link\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/homepage2\/exploring-resilience-strategies-for-sales-professionals\/\" >\n\t\t\t<h4 class=\"bdt-gallery-item-title bdt-margin-remove\">\n\t\t\t\tExploring Resilience Strategies for Sales Professionals\t\t\t<\/h4>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-position-top-left\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-item bdt-transition-toggle bdt-width-1-1 bdt-width-1-2@s bdt-width-1-3@m\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-inner\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail\">\n\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" src=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/The-Thinker-1-300x169.png\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"How a Positive Mindset Sets the Stage for Sales Success\" srcset=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/The-Thinker-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/The-Thinker-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/The-Thinker-1-770x433.png 770w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/The-Thinker-1.png 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-position-top-right bdt-margin bdt-margin-right\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-content\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-content-inner bdt-transition-fade\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-flex-inline bdt-gallery-item-link-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-gallery-item-link bdt-gallery-lightbox-item bdt-link-icon\" data-elementor-open-lightbox=\"no\" data-caption=\"How a Positive Mindset Sets the Stage for Sales Success\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/The-Thinker-1.png\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"ep-icon-search\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-gallery-item-link bdt-link-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/homepage2\/how-a-positive-mindset-sets-the-stage-for-sales-success\/\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i class=\"ep-icon-link\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-desc bdt-text-left bdt-position-z-index bdt-position-bottom\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"bdt-post-gallery-title-link\" href=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/homepage2\/how-a-positive-mindset-sets-the-stage-for-sales-success\/\" >\n\t\t\t<h4 class=\"bdt-gallery-item-title bdt-margin-remove\">\n\t\t\t\tHow a Positive Mindset Sets the Stage for Sales Success\t\t\t<\/h4>\n\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-position-top-left\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-item bdt-transition-toggle bdt-width-1-1 bdt-width-1-2@s bdt-width-1-3@m\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-post-gallery-inner\" >\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail bdt-gallery-thumbnail\">\n\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" src=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/7cb82a6d-db95-404b-b9af-ed4be61da8c4-300x169.png\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"Strategies for Effectively Requesting Client Feedback to Drive Success\" srcset=\"https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/7cb82a6d-db95-404b-b9af-ed4be61da8c4-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/7cb82a6d-db95-404b-b9af-ed4be61da8c4-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/7cb82a6d-db95-404b-b9af-ed4be61da8c4-770x433.png 770w, https:\/\/3owens.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/7cb82a6d-db95-404b-b9af-ed4be61da8c4.png 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"bdt-position-top-right bdt-margin bdt-margin-right\">\n\t\t\t<div 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